Selling the home you've held for 15, 20, 30 years is different. Your agent should be too.
This isn't a starter-home flip. It's decades of equity, a §121 exclusion, a Prop 19 decision, and probably some deferred projects — all wrapped in one address. I sell these homes with a broker's strategy and a CFO's math.
Three kinds of longtime-owner sales — each with its own playbook
Moving to the next chapter
Sequencing the sale and purchase, carrying your tax base with Prop 19, and making the equity fund the life you actually want.
The Downsizing Roadmap →Selling as trustee or heir
Date-of-death valuations, step-up in basis, fiduciary documentation, and coordination with your attorney and CPA.
How trust sales work →Just ready to sell — well
Street-level pricing, prep that returns more than it costs, and honest numbers from listing day to closing table. The rest of this page is for you.
Start with a Seller Plan →Your Seller Plan, step by step
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The numbers meeting
Realistic value from street-level comps (what actually closed near you and why), your estimated net after commissions, transfer tax, and capital gains — and if you're 55+, your Prop 19 options. You'll leave knowing your walk-away number before you commit to anything.
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Prep that pays — and only that
Homes held for decades usually need something. I recommend the projects that return more than they cost in your micro-market, skip the ones that don't, and manage the crews. Sorting decades of belongings? My estate-sale and senior-move network handles it. And for qualified sellers, up to $50,000 of the prep can be funded through KW Renew with $0 upfront and repaid at closing — how that works, and its limits.
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Launch with full exposure
Professional staging and photography, MLS launch timed to your market, and marketing that reaches both sides of the hill — Silicon Valley buyers and Santa Cruz lifestyle buyers.
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Negotiate from strength
Offer strategy, term-by-term comparison (price isn't everything — contingencies, rent-backs, and certainty matter), and a broker doing the negotiating, not an assistant.
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Close clean
Escrow managed, Prop 19 filing coordinated, closing package your CPA will thank you for, and your proceeds where they belong: with you.
"He managed the entire pre-listing preparation with a flawless rhythm—handling everything from painting and deep cleaning to gorgeous staging… Lance's communication is stellar; he relies on hard data rather than empty sales pitches." — Melissa W., sold a single-family home, 2026 · ★★★★★ verified Zillow review
In Santa Clara County the seller pays escrow, title and transfer tax.
That is the most seller-heavy allocation in the Bay Area, and it is why the same house nets differently here than it would in San Mateo. Over the hill in Santa Cruz County escrow splits fifty-fifty instead. Neither is law — both are custom, and both are negotiable in the contract.
One dollar over $2,300,000 in San Jose costs $17,250 in transfer tax.
The capital gains exclusion has not moved since 1997. Your house has.
Internal Revenue Code §121 lets you exclude up to $250,000 of gain on your primary residence if you file single, or $500,000 if you are married filing jointly. You need to have owned and lived in the home for two of the last five years — 730 days, and they do not have to be continuous.
Here is the part that catches longtime owners: those two figures are not indexed to inflation. They were set in 1997 and they have not changed since. Bay Area house prices have. An exclusion that comfortably covered a whole gain in 1997 now covers a fraction of one.
Say you bought in 1988 for $185,000 and you are selling at $2,400,000. That is $2,215,000 of gain before adjustments. The $500,000 exclusion leaves $1,715,000 still exposed. What happens to that number next depends on your other income, because long-term capital gain stacks on top of it — and on whether the 3.8% net investment income tax reaches you, which is charged on the lesser of your investment income or the amount your income exceeds the threshold, not on the whole gain.
Two things pull that exposed number back down, and both get missed. Every capital improvement you have made in those decades adds to your basis under §1016 — the kitchen, the roof, the deck, the seismic retrofit. Repairs do not count; improvements do. And your selling costs come off the amount realized. Thirty years of receipts is a real project, which is exactly why it should start before you list, not during escrow.
I am a broker, not a CPA or an attorney. This is how the rules read; what they mean for your return is a conversation with your tax preparer, and I am happy to be in it.
The net proceeds calculator takes a sale price and gives you the walk-away number — commissions, escrow, title, county and city transfer tax, then federal capital gains with the real bracket stacking, California at your marginal rate, and the net investment income tax computed the way the statute actually computes it.
Proposition 19 lets you carry your existing property-tax base to a replacement home anywhere in California, up to three times. It changes what your next house costs to hold every year for the rest of your life, and the sequencing matters.
The Home Seller’s Guide
The full listing process, in the order it happens, from the team that will actually be doing it.
The ten steps from listing appointment to closing. What determines whether a house sells or sits — pricing, condition, marketing, in that order. The prep list, room by room and outside in. What staging and professional photography are really for, and which parts of the marketing budget we cover.
- The ten-step process — listing appointment, prep, imagery, marketing, showings, offers, negotiation, inspections, repairs, close.
- Pricing strategy — why the first few weeks decide the outcome, and what over-pricing costs in buyer traffic.
- The prep checklist — exterior and interior, with the items that move the needle separated from the ones that don’t.
- Staging and photography — what a stager is actually hired to do, and why the photos decide whether anyone clicks.
- Marketing and network — coming-soon, online, social, print, and the co-op agent network.
If you want the numbers rather than the process, start with the net proceeds calculator instead.
What longtime owners actually ask me
Should I sell before I buy the next place, or after?
Selling first is usually the stronger financial position and, if you are 55 or older, the better Prop 19 position — the value test is more generous when the sale comes first, and buying first drops the threshold to 100% while you pay full market-value tax until the later event, with no refund. Selling first also means you negotiate without a contingency hanging over you. The trade is that you need somewhere to go, which a rent-back from your buyer often solves. The downsizing roadmap walks through the sequencing in order.
Do I have to do the repairs, or can I sell as-is?
You can always sell as-is, and sometimes that is the right call — particularly in a trust or estate sale where the heirs are in three states and nobody wants to manage crews. But as-is is priced by buyers as if every unknown is a worst case, so it usually costs more than the work would have. My approach is to identify only the projects that return more than they cost in your specific micro-market, skip the rest, and manage those crews myself. That list is short more often than people expect.
The house has decades of belongings in it. Where do we even start?
Room by room, with a five-pile method and a realistic view of what actually resells and what does not. Most of it does not, and the sooner that is accepted the faster the job goes. I have an estate-sale and senior-move network that does this for a living, and the free room-by-room sort checklist gives you the sequence plus honest cost ranges for senior move managers, estate sale companies and haul-away.
The house is in a trust. Does that change how the sale runs?
Less than most people fear. A sale by a trustee generally needs no court confirmation at all — Probate Code §16226 — so the mechanics look much like any other listing. What changes is the documentation around it: the date-of-death value, the notices and their clocks, the assessor’s form, and a paper trail a beneficiary cannot pick apart later. Trust and estate sales covers it, and probate vs. trust sales has the statute-level detail if you are in the probate version instead.
How long does the whole thing take?
From the numbers meeting to closing, a prepared longtime-owner sale typically runs six to ten weeks, and the prep is most of it. Escrow itself is usually 21 to 30 days. If the house needs real work, or belongings have to be cleared first, add to the front end — not the back.
Who pays for staging and photography?
I cover professional photography and the marketing package. Staging is handled case by case depending on what the house needs and what it is likely to return — it is one of the line items I will tell you to skip when it will not pay for itself. The Home Seller’s Guide lays out what the marketing budget covers.
Do you work with my CPA and attorney?
Yes, and I would rather be in that conversation early than be handed the outcome of it. I prepare net-proceeds analyses and retrospective opinions of value for exactly this purpose. Note that California only permits a broker to pay compensation for licensed activity to licensed persons, so no referral fee moves in either direction — see for advisors.
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